September 15, 2009

i sometimes think that being overcritical about your own personality is of no good..... doesnt help......
you do it either because you expect yourself to be better and hence you make yourself more receptible to changes.....
or
you do it as fault finding.....probably cz u think u are still not good enuf...

there shud always be a bit of moderation to your thinking. eccentricity is no good as life has shades other than just black and white........
i m writing about this i tend to get over critical about myself almost the whole time..... therefore i can say it doesnt really help you when you need to be at peace and when you need your best to be at your disposal........
a friend of mine told me one day that its okay to be wrong sometimes.......n its okay to be imperfect......
it is okay to be unreasonable ..... n its also okay to feel you are right when you are wrong
it is not wrong to be a bit self centred and sometimes even a lot....

unlike always...i dint reason out what she had said.......cz the echo of it somewhere gave me the liberty to be at peace even if i go wrong......

life is not a set of rules...it is just like a flowing river that turns according to the course it has......
life unfolds and changes gradually...... you learn gradually.......and learning allows you to make mistakes.........

so its not important to be a digihomosapien who does not make any mistakes.....follows the right course and makes the right decision......what's more important is how you learn from different situations and how an experience leaves you with a lesson learnt........
Just believe in yourself that you are right and believe in your potential and that you definetely have something good in you..........
keep your intensions strong and let your actions follow your intension.......
there is no looking back......